Field Lexicon

The Narcassistance Lexicon

18 terms. Clinical definitions written for field use — precise enough to be accurate, clear enough to be actionable. Navigate term by term or jump to any entry.

Entry 01

Covert Narcissism

A subtype of narcissistic personality disorder characterized by hidden grandiosity, victimhood, and indirect manipulation.

Entry 02

Overt Narcissism

The classic, visible form of narcissistic personality disorder — obvious grandiosity, entitlement, and rage responses to criticism.

Entry 03

Love Bombing

Disproportionate attention and intensity in early relationships, designed to accelerate emotional investment before judgment can engage.

Entry 04

DARVO

Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender — the accountability evasion sequence used when confronted with harmful behavior.

Entry 05

Mirroring

The opening phase in which the narcissist reflects back the target's own values and desires to create the illusion of perfect compatibility.

Entry 06

Gaslighting

The deliberate manipulation of another person's perception of reality — making them doubt their own memory and judgment.

Entry 07

Narcissistic Supply

The attention, admiration, and emotional reactions — including negative ones — that narcissists require to maintain their sense of self.

Entry 08

Intermittent Reinforcement

Unpredictable reward delivery that produces stronger and more persistent behavior — the psychological mechanism behind relationship addiction.

Entry 09

Trauma Bonding

A strong emotional attachment that develops toward someone causing harm, produced by intermittent reinforcement cycles of threat and relief.

Entry 10

Dark Triad

A cluster of three overlapping traits — narcissism, Machiavellianism, and subclinical psychopathy — that together produce manipulative behavior.

Entry 11

Machiavellianism

Strategic manipulation, a cynical view of human nature, and willingness to deceive others to achieve personal goals.

Entry 12

Hoovering

The tactic used to re-establish contact with a former supply source after distance or after the target has attempted to leave.

Entry 13

Discard Phase

The final phase of the narcissistic relationship cycle, when the target's supply value has dropped and the narcissist withdraws.

Entry 14

Flying Monkeys

Third parties recruited by the narcissist to carry out their agenda, often without being aware they are being used.

Entry 15

Triangulation

The introduction of a third party — real or implied — to create jealousy, insecurity, or competition in the target.

Entry 16

Accountability Test

A diagnostic behavioral test: raise a small, specific concern calmly and observe whether the person can engage with it directly.

Entry 17

Rule of Three

A structured three-date observation framework designed to surface behavioral patterns before emotional investment obscures them.

Entry 18

Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)

A formal psychiatric diagnosis: pervasive grandiosity, need for admiration, and lack of empathy as defined in the DSM-5.